February love!
On this first day of February, I share with you a letter written to our son, on his last Valentines Day. Four years later, I clearly see the words placed on my heart given to him in a new light. As I read, I see a sovereign God, reminding us of HIS awesome gift of love.
“I know it is time for your wings to take you to new places. I never expected this time to be so difficult for me.” “Clearly you have a bright future ahead of you.” (How bright heaven must be!) “Breathe deep and make positive, intentional moves.” “I have grown as a person by being your parent.” Not only did these apply to our son’s life four years ago, but they apply to our lives everyday! As parents we want to give our children the best of us, just as Our Father desires this for His children.
May this month of LOVE remind you to appreciate the gifts you have been given, no matter the length of time.
Love & Peace,
MamaC
February 14, 2014
Dearest Connor,
I love you! I like you! You have always been my sunshine! You amaze me with your funny, smart, driven ideas and personality! I am thankful you give it your all when necessary. You are kind hearted. When we asked about adopting our youngest two, I knew what your response would be. There was never a doubt. Your brothers and sisters adore you, as they should.
The day you were born, my life changed for the best. You have been the light of my life, always smiling, laughing and joking. You are a good friend to others, listening and giving advice. I wish nothing more than for you to be happy and successful in your own heart. I have always seen a kind hearted, smart, quick-witted leader in you. Due to this, I have pushed you harder than most. I felt you were up to it. I have always been your biggest cheerleader and still am. I believe you refer to this as overbearing. 🙂
When you were younger, you never spent time in time-out. You never needed time out. You thrived spending time with our family, making us all laugh. I know it is time for your wings to take you to new places. I never expected this time to be so difficult for me. I am looking forward to you experiencing new adventures and building your own life. Please see your Dad and I as support. We are doing our best to love and let go, praying that the values we taught you these past 18 years are deep in your heart. Someday I hope that you will find that parenting is the most important blessing you will have. Clearly, you have a bright future ahead of you.
I remember how stressful being a teen was. Many decisions on your future are being made this year that will lead to the course of your life. Remember that for every time you feel a set back, there will be a leap forward in wisdom that guides your path to your success and security. Breathe deep and make positive, intentional moves. Think all things through. It is the small stuff that matters. Always care.
You have a supportive family that loves you intensely. Your dad and I both admire your accomplishments and are amazed we have been given the gift of you. Never doubt this. I have grown as a person by being your parent and I would not exchange that for anything. It has been a wonderful, awesome life that I thank God for everyday!
Love you,
Mama
So now, Faith, hope, love abide these three; but the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:13
Photo: Valentines Box decorated by Connor in grade school.
